Bedroom Feng Shui: Complete Guide for Better Sleep

Why Bedroom Feng Shui Matters

You spend one-third of your life in your bedroom. The energy here directly affects your:

• 😴 Sleep quality and rest
• 💑 Romantic relationships
• 🧘 Mental and emotional health
• ⚡ Daily energy levels

Bed Placement: The #1 Rule

Command Position

Your bed should be in the command position:

• ✅ Headboard against a solid wall
• ✅ Can see the door while lying down
• ✅ NOT directly in line with the door
• ✅ Diagonal from the door is ideal

What to Avoid

• ❌ Bed under a window (no support)
• ❌ Bed sharing a wall with a toilet
• ❌ Bed under exposed beams
• ❌ Bed directly facing the door

Best Bedroom Colors

For Better Sleep: Earth Tones

• Beige, Cream, Taupe - Grounding and calming
• Soft Brown - Stability and security
• Warm Gray - Peaceful and neutral

For Romance: Skin Tones & Soft Pinks

• Peach, Coral - Warmth and intimacy
• Light Pink - Love and tenderness
• Soft Rose - Romance and passion

Colors to Avoid

• ❌ Bright Red - Too stimulating for sleep
• ❌ Dark Blue/Black - Can be depressing
• ❌ Bright Yellow - Too energizing

Mirror Placement Rules

Golden Rule: NO mirrors facing the bed

Why?

• Disrupts sleep energy
• Can cause restlessness
• May invite third-party energy into relationships

If You Must Have a Mirror

• Place it inside a closet door
• Cover it at night with a cloth
• Position it so it doesn't reflect the bed

Electronics & EMF

Minimize Electronics

• 📱 Keep phones away from bed (use airplane mode)
• 📺 No TV in bedroom (or cover when not in use)
• 💻 No work laptops or desks
• ⏰ Use battery-powered alarm clocks

EMF Protection

• Unplug devices at night
• Keep charging stations outside bedroom
• Use EMF-blocking materials if needed

Decor & Accessories

Paired Items for Romance

• Two nightstands (equality in relationship)
• Two lamps (balanced energy)
• Pairs of decorative items
• Artwork showing pairs or couples

Plants

• ✅ Small plants in far corners
• ✅ Peace lily, snake plant (air purifying)
• ❌ Avoid large plants near bed
• ❌ No cacti or spiky plants

Lighting

• Soft, warm lighting
• Dimmable lights for flexibility
• Avoid harsh overhead lights
• Use bedside lamps with warm bulbs

Conclusion: Your Bedroom Checklist

• ✅ Bed in command position
• ✅ Solid headboard
• ✅ Calming earth-tone colors
• ✅ No mirrors facing bed
• ✅ Minimal electronics
• ✅ Paired nightstands and lamps
• ✅ Soft, warm lighting
• ✅ Clutter-free space

❓ Frequently Asked Questions

Should I have a TV in the bedroom for good feng shui?

Ideally, no. TVs and electronics emit electromagnetic energy that can disrupt sleep. If you must have a TV, cover it at night with a decorative cloth, keep it at least 6 feet from the bed, and turn it off completely (not standby mode).

What is the best bed position for feng shui?

The Command Position is best: headboard against a solid wall, diagonal from the door, where you can see the entrance without being directly in line with it. Avoid placing the bed directly under a window or with feet pointing at the door (called the "coffin position").

Can I put a mirror in the bedroom?

Mirrors are tricky in bedrooms. The main rule is: never let a mirror reflect the bed while sleeping. This can cause restless sleep and relationship issues. If you need a mirror, place it inside a closet door or cover it at night. Learn more in our Mirror Feng Shui Guide.

What colors attract love and romance in the bedroom?

For romance, use skin tones, soft pinks, peach, coral, and warm reds. These colors activate the Heart Chakra and attract love energy. Avoid cold colors like blue or gray for romance, though they're fine for restful sleep. Use pairs of items (2 nightstands, 2 pillows) to attract partnership.

Is it bad feng shui to have plants in the bedroom?

Small plants with rounded leaves are fine and can even be beneficial. Avoid large plants, cacti, or plants with sharp leaves. Snake plants and peace lilies are good choices as they release oxygen at night. Limit to 1-2 small plants. Check our Plants Guide for more recommendations.